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KINLIST
"She was the toughest person in all of Zaun. Nothing scared her."
"No, not my sister. Vi was strong because she was afraid. Her fear of losing us is what made her fight so hard."
- Powder AU to Ekko (Arcane Season 2)HEAD CORE (5,6,7): "FEAR"

Yuzuriha - Hell's Paradise (2023)

Silver Wolf - Honkai: Star Rail (Game)

Ryusui Nanami - Dr Stone (2022)

Kitty Softpaws - Puss in Boots: TLW (2022)

Ellie Williams - The Last of Us (Game)

Quanxi - Chainsaw Man (Manga)

Rosa Diaz - Brooklyn 99 (2013)

Valkyrie - Thor: Love and Thunder (2022)

Korra - The Legend of Korra (2012)

Violet "Vi" - Arcane (2021)

Medea Solon - Your Throne (Manhwa)

Melissa - Beware of the Villainess (Manhwa)
Other kins / fandoms(click here to skip to end of the list)
| Group | Character | Reference | Typology |
|---|---|---|---|
| ✨ | Head Triad (5,6,7) | ||
| E5 | Lucyna "Lucy" Kushinada | Cyberpunk: Edgerunners (2022) | 582 (Sexual 5) - 5w6 sx/sp - ISFP - SEI - RLUEN - LFEV - Melancholic-Choleric - IF(S) |
| ㅤ | Maomao | The Apothecary Diaries (2023) | 594 (Self-pres 5) - 5w6 sp/so - INTP - ILI - RCOEI - LFEV - Phlegmatic [Dominant] - IT(N) |
| ㅤ | Frieren | Sousou No Frieren (2023) | 594 (Self-pres 5) - 5w4 sp/so - INTP - ILI - RCUEI - LFEV - Phlegmatic [Dominant] - IT(N) |
| E6 | Shouko Komi | Komi Can't Communicate (2021) | 692 (Self-pres 6) - 6w5 - sp/so - ISFJ - EII - RLOAI - LEFV - Melancholic-Phlegmatic - IS(F) |
| ㅤ | Zenitsu Agatsuma | Demon Slayer (2019) | 692 (Self-pres 6) - 6w7 sp/sx - ISFP - ESE - SLUAN - EFLV - Sanguine-Melancholic - IF(S) |
| ㅤ | Lydia Rodarte-Quayle | Breaking Bad (2008) | 613 (Self-pres 6) - 6w5 sp/so - ISTJ - LSI - RLOEN - EVFL - Melancholic [Dominnat] - IS(T) |
| ㅤ | Katniss Everdeen | Hunger Games (2012) | 684 (Sexual 6) - 6w7 sx/sp - ISTP - LSI - RCUEN - FVLE - Melancholic-Choleric - IT(S) |
| ㅤ | Arya Stark | Game of Thrones (2011) | 684 (Sexual 6) - 6w7 sx/so - ISTP - SLI - RCUEN - FVLE - Choleric-Phlegmatic - IT(S) |
| ㅤ | Sevika | Arcane (2021) | 683 (Sexual 6) - 6w7 sx/sp - ISTP - SLI - RCUEN - FLVE - Choleric [Dominant] - IT(S) |
| ㅤ | Holga Kilgore | Dungeons & Dragons: Honour Among Thieves (2023) | 684 (Sexual 6) - 6w7 sx/sp - ISTP - SLI - RCUEN - FVLE - Choleric-Phlegmatic - IT(S) |
| ㅤ | Beatrice "Tris" Prior | Divergent (2014) | 684 (Sexual 6) - 6w7 sx/so - ISFP - ESI - RLUEN - FVLE - Phlegmatic-Choleric - IF(S) |
| ㅤㅤ | Sonnie | Love, Death & Robots (2019) | 684 (Sexual 6) - 6w5 sx/sp - ISTP - LSI - RCOEI - VLFE - Phlegmatic-Choleric - IT(S) |
| E7 | Rick Sanchez | Rick & Morty (2013) | 784 (Self-pres 7) - 784 sp/sx - ENTP - ILE - SCUEI - VLEF - Choleric [Dominant] - EN(T) |
| ㅤ | Lucifer Morningstar | Lucifer (2016) | 748 (Self-pres 7) - 7w8 sp/so - ESFP - SEE - SLUEN - FEVL - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(F) |
| ㅤ | BoJack Horseman | BoJack Horseman (2014) | 738 (Self-pres 7) - 7w8 sp/sx - ENTP - ILE - SLUEI - FLVE - Choleric-Melancholic - EN(T) |
| ㅤ | Anne-Sophia von Palletia | Tensei Oujo to Tensai (2023) | 783 (Sexual 7) - 7w8 sx/so - ENTP - ILE - SLUAI - ELFV - Sanguine [Dominant] - EN(T) |
| ㅤ | Sandy Cheeks | SpongeBob SquarePants (1999) | 782 (Social 7) - 7w8 so/sp - ESTP - ILE - SCOAI - FVLE - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Chrome | Dr Stone (2022) | 731 (Social 7) - 7w6 so/sx - ENFP - IEE - SLUAI - ELFV - Sanguine [Dominant] - EN(F) |
| ㅤ | 22 | Soul (2020) | 748 (Self-pres 7) - 7w8 sp/so - ESTP - ILE - SLUEI - FLVE - Sanguine [Dominant] - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Taekhu | Cheolsu Saves The World (Manhwa) | 739 (Sexual 7) - 7w8 sx/so - ENTP - ILE - SCUEI - VLEF - Sanguine [Dominant] - EN(T) |
| ㅤ | Georgia Miller | Ginny and Georgia (2021) | 738 (Self-pres 7) - 7w8 sp/so - ESTP - SEE - SLUEN - VFLE - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(F) |
| ✨ | Gut Triad (8,9,1) | ||
| E8 | Merida | Brave (2012) | 874 (Self-pres 8) - 8w7 sp/sx - ESFP - SEE - SLUEN - VFLE - Choleric [Dominant] - ES(F) |
| ㅤ | Buttercup | The Powerpuff Girls (1998) | 873 (Self-pres 8) - 8w7 sp/sx - ESTP - SLE - SLUEN - VFLE - Choleric [Dominant] - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Toph Beifong | Avatar: The Last Airbender (2005) | 873 (Self-pres 8) - 8w7 sp/sx - ESTP - SLE - SCUEN - FVLE - Choleric-Phlegmatic - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Tsunade Senju | Naruto (2002) | 873 (Sexual 8) - 8w7 sx/so - ESTP - SLE - SLUEI - FVLE - Choleric [Dominant] - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Audrey Rocio Ramirez | Atlantis: The Lost Empire (2001) | 873 (Sexual 8) - 8w7 sx/so - ESTP - SLE - SLUEI - FVLE - Choleric [Dominant] - ES(T) |
| ㅤ | Serval Landau | Honkai: Star Rail (Game) | 873 (Social 8) - 8w7 so/sp - ESTP - SEE - SCUAI - VFLE - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(F) |
| E9 | Spider-Gwen | Into The Spiderverse (2018) | 953 (Self-pres 9) - 9w8 sp/sx - ISTP - ESI - RCUAN - FLEV - Phlegmatic [Dominant] - IT(S) |
| ✨ | Heart Triad (2,3,4) | ||
| E2ㅤㅤ | Gaston | Beauty and The Beast (1991) | 287 (Sexual 2) - 2w3 sx/so - ESFP - SEE - SLUEN - FEVL - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(F) |
| ㅤㅤ | Elinalise Dragonroad | Mushoku Tensei (2021) | 278 (Sexual 2) - 2w3 sx/sp - ESFP - SEE - SLUEN - FEVL - Sanguine [Dominant] - ES(F) |
| ㅤ | Galinda "Glinda" Upland | Wicked (2024) | 279 (Self-pres 2) - 2w3 sp/sx - ESFJ - ESE - SLOEN - FEVL - Sanguine [Dominant] - EF(S) |
| ㅤ | Fix-It Felix Jr. | Wreck-It Ralph (2012) | 261 (Social 2) - 2w3 so/sx - ESFJ - ESE - SCOAN - FEVL - Sanguine [Dominant] - EF(S) |
| ㅤ | Princess Peach Toadstool | The Super Mario Bros. Movie (2023) | 296 (Social 2) - 2w3 so/sp - ESFJ - ESE - SCOAN - FELV - Sanguine-Phlegmatic - EF(S) |
| ㅤ | Aphrodite | Greek Mythology | 278 (Sexual 2) - 2w3 sx/so - ESFP - SEE - SLUEN - FEVL - Sanguine-Choleric - ES(F) |
| E3 | Yuri Claude | Queen Cecia's Shorts (Manhwa) | 378 (Social 3) - 3w4 so/sp - ENFP - SLE - SLUAI - FELV - Phlegmatic-Sanguine - EN(F) |
| ㅤ | Miyako Shikimori | Shikimori's Not Just a Cutie (Manga) | 368 (Sexual 3) - 3w2 sx/so - ENFJ - EIE - SCOAN - VEFL - Phlegmatic-Sanguine - EF(N) |
| ㅤ | Park Do-Gyeom | Love is an Illusion! The Queen (Omegaverse) | 378 (Social 3) - 3w4 so/sx - ESTP - SLE - SCUEN - VFLE - Choleric-Sanguine - ES(T) |
| E4 | Hitori "Bocchi" Gotou | Bocchi the Rock! (2022) | 469 (Social 4) - 4w5 so/sp - INFP - EII - RLUAI - ELVF - Melancholic-Phlegmatic - IF(N) |
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MY TYPOLOGY
enneagram - instinctual variant - tritype - socionics - MBTI - Big 5 - attitudinal psyche - temperaments - jungian function
5w6 - sp/so - 582 - LII - INTP - RLUEN - FLEV - Mel-Chol - IT(N)Possible alternatives: sp7* (likely), sx6, sx7, sp6, SLI/ILE/ILI, ISTP/INTJ, VLEF/LFVE, Chol-Mel, IT(S)
*probably just sp5 moving towards disintegrationIf you ever want to type me for fun, you can read my Q&A below! ;)# TREND TEMPLATE FOR FUN- Types people usually think I am: INTx so5 (cuz I'm a scientist lol), sometimes ENTP
- Characters I would love to be: ISxP sx6 (badass steetpunks/rebels!!) or protective ESxP so8- Types I like/attraced to: ExFP/ESFJ sp2, sx9, so9, or sx7 (cuties/hyperactive yapper plzz)
- Stereotypes I relate the most: ISxP sx6 or sx5, INTP so5, sometimes ExxP sp7 or sx7 too(Reminder: While typology can be fun, it's just a pseudoscience. So take this with a grain of salt!)
ATTITUDINAL PSYCHE
FLEV (THE ALCHEMIST)

1F – Confident Physics
2L – Flexible Logic
3E – Insecure Emotion
4V – Unbothered VolitionFLEV is characterized by their strong desire for the fulfillment from the material/physical sensations from around the world. They project hedonistic self-assurance while maintaining a hyperactive curiosity for ideas, though they remain emotionally guarded.As a Pente type, FLEVs exhibit a mixed state between their first and fourth attitudes, where their physical certainty blends with an unbothered approach to their will. They may have short bursts of inspiration to reach a desired future goal but will ultimately use this inspiration to serve a physical need that they value.
SOCIONICS
Logical Intuitive Introtim (LII)
LII aligns with a structured, theoretical approach to reality, with its Ego block (Ti-Ne) combining logical consistency and conceptual potential.Ti focuses on understanding underlying structures and organizing information into coherent, universal systems. Ne complements this by exploring hidden possibilities and multiple perspectives, feeding new concepts into the logical framework.Together, this creates a type that prefers intellectual analysis and system-building, gravitating toward conceptual clarity and autonomy while avoiding illogical inconsistencies or arbitrary emotional pressure.❝Analytical, principled, and quietly perceptive, the LII treats the world as a complex system to be understood and organized. They prefer structural clarity, theoretical exploration, and objective fairness, stepping in with well-reasoned frameworks.❞ - V. Gulenko (Wikisocion)
ENNEAGRAM TRITYPE
sp5, 582 sp/so
5w6 - 8w9 - 2w3
Self-Preservation 5 (Core/Head) - CASTLE - 5w6
The SP5 is driven by a need for autonomy and essential self-sufficiency. They seek to create a protected "sanctuary" where they can conserve their energy and resources, avoiding the demands of the external world at all costs.They tend to withdraw into their internal world, often building high walls to ensure they aren't depleted by others or overwhelmed by social obligations. This subtype blends intellectual depth with self-containment, leading to a personality that is observant and independent.The 6 wing and self-preservation instinct introduce a structured caution: alongside the drive for knowledge and solitude, there is a parallel focus on security and analytical preparation, leading to a life of carefully managed isolation.❝ SP5 embodies the 'Castle' archetype: "I must protect my space and resources to ensure I am not overwhelmed." They focus on being self-contained, seeking safety through withdrawal, and the mastery of their private domain. ❞ - B. Chestnut (PDB Wiki)The 8 Fix (Gut/Instinct) - LUST - 8w9
The E8 fix has a drive for the type of life they believe they deserve, their combination of lust with the self-preservation instinct leads them to focus on getting what they need for survival.They are fixated on what they believe will bring them the satisfaction of their needs, and they gobble up what they THINK they need, often at the expense of filling their real needs.They often get the title of the least expressive and the most armed of the three Eight subtypes. Their characteristic is somewhat like SX1 who is also obsessed with their desire, but One is hypersocial, while Eight is completely antisocial. One is too concerned with the rules and the other too little.❝ The word that corresponds to 8 is satisfaction: “This is mine. I have to have it.“ It is more an intolerance of the frustration of what he wants to have than the actual having of it. ❞ - C. Naranjo (PDB Wiki)*
The 2 Fix (Heart/Image) - PRIDE - 2w3
The 2 fix manifests pride through their role as a powerful nurturer and protector of their group. They are driven by their ambition to be “on top” and wield power themselves.They tend to engage in power struggles, desiring to dominate and play the protector role. This shapes their relationships as they aim to be the strong, reliable figure others depend on.Like SO8, they are powerful and protective. However, they can also show vulnerability to solidify their influence. They are goal-oriented, competitive, and successful in their endeavors.❝Their pride lies in influential nurturance: "They need me. I must be strong so I can protect and guide them." It's more about being the powerful figure others depend on than just being helpful. They seek validation through becoming the protector of their chosen people, combining strength with warmth.❞ - C. Naranjo (PDB Wiki)This stack reflects a clear priority: detachment and preservation (E5) as the core motivation used to manage their environment, autonomy and control over their own life (E8) as a necessity, and ambition (E2) as a strategic bridge to ensure they remain indispensable to those they choose to protect.
THE BIG FIVE
RLUEN
- EXTRAVERSION: 0% (VERY LOW)
(R)eserved > Social
- NEUROTICISM: 75% (HIGH)
(L)imbic > Calm
- CONSCIENTIOUSNESS: 25% (LOW)
(U)norganized > Organized
- AGREEABLENESS: 25% (LOW)
(E)gocentric > Agreeable
- OPENNESS: 50% (MEDIUM)
(N)on-curious = InquisitiveRLUEN is someone who is highly independent and internally driven with a focus on developing and exploring specific interests rather than broad curiosity. They prefer freedom over structure and personal direction over social alignment.
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TYPOLOGY Q&A
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1. What's your biggest fear?
To live a life where I cannot achieve what I desire most because of others or circumstances holding me back. Like, having people try to dictate my choices or take away my HAPPINESS, being controlled, being stuck in a boring office job, suffering a low quality of life because of financial debt or a lack of money, having to bear annoying unnecessary responsibility like taking care of a child I don’t want, having what I want taken away (especially if I can't fight back against that kind of injustice). I can't stand being told what to do, having others make decisions for me, being bored to death, or missing out on life because I can't chase what I desire.2. What's your biggest desire?
I want to live, not just surviving. I want to experience life. To live my life to the fullest! Explore everything. Do what I want to do and get what I want to get. Be mindful and pursue whatever I'm interested in. Build a strong sense of brotherhood/sisterhood with the people I find worth protecting. I want to be able to share everything in my life because I know my people will respect my decisions, and won't dismiss my goals as "too intense", "overly ambitious", or “unrealistic”.3. What are you 'the best' at?
Getting what I want and figuring things out! It's fun, it feeds my curiosity. I can be pushy or stubborn when I really want something. I get restless when I can't get what I want, but I usually end up finding a way anyway. I'm good at figuring out the logistics somehow. And I have a knack for spotting things others miss in everyday situations. I also pick up on random details, maybe because I get bored easily and need constant stimulation...? I tend to notice things, connect them with what I already know, and try to make sense of them by coming up with possible explanations. I like analyzing how things work conceptually. I want to look at something and figure out the "why" and "how."4. How do you see yourself right now?
I am where I am meant to be. I’m not exactly “happy”, but I live a life that I've chosen for myself, so I am somewhat content with it. I have a partner that I share a deep bond with and I have achieved what I wanted (doing something cool). So I try to immerse myself in it and try to explore all the pleasures that life has to offer.But also, I’m kinda stressed out now with all the responsibilities and the possible risks ahead. Cuz, yeah I chose this myself, and it was fun while it lasted, but the risk is frustrating. I can’t stop overthinking it. I don’t wanna be stuck with debt! Not like it is dangerous or terminal, in fact it is very survivable and I can already think of some options/ways out, but it’s still annoying because it would limit my freedom and lower my quality of life for the next few years. But then again, looking back to how stagnant and BORING my life used to be, I had nothing to lose anyway, so I know I chose right.5. How do you see yourself 5 years from now?
Happy and satisfied, hopefully! Living a bon vivant lifestyle with my loved one, exploring all kinds of physical pleasures. Keep doing things that sound cool or FUN and make $$$.6. How do you express yourself?
Freely and truthfully. I don't like to conceal my emotions. When I have something to say, I say it directly. When I want something, I get it. I tend to overshare most of the time. However, people tend to say that my face is flat/expressionless (no idea why cuz that's not how I feel internally???). I might not be the most expressive outwardly, but I always make sure to express myself clearly with words.7. How do you feel about those near you (family, friends)?
Family: Growing up around them wasn't great. I was just a dumb, invisible, quiet kid to them. My opinions didn't count because I was "just a child”. I felt the need to grow up fast and speak logically just to be taken seriously, e.g. justify what I wanted whenever I became fascinated with something. They questioned my intelligence and told me that my goals weren't rational just because I liked to dream big, told me to give up on my dream multiple times, told me that I’m intellectually inferior, that I should just become a housewife, and that it was just the “nature of women”, but ehh, who cares? I ended up achieving what I wanted, willpower alone always beats everything else anyway. The past is in the past. I don't want to dwell on it. I just focus on what I can do. I want to build my own found-family where people are heard, supported for whatever they desire in life, and have each other's backs.Friends: I REALLY love my friends (platonically). I feel the need for a deep sense of connection to them on a personal level, sometimes a little bit too much that I cross their boundaries…?? Which is ironic because sometimes they cut me off for it! Sometimes I come across as being too possessive, but I just care so much about them. They're my people!!8. How do you feel about strangers?
Uhh, neutral…? I don’t care much unless they give me a reason to. I don’t feel any attachment by default. I tend to be more closed off around strangers, but I share what I think are fun or fascinating ideas on my social media, e.g. research topics, activities, or fandom-related content. I love getting engagement, even short replies from people who share the same interests so we can hype about stuff together.9. How do you view change/uncertainty?
I'm easily bored, so I could really use some novelty. Those are the things that keep me alive! I enjoy encountering new ideas, technologies, and scientific concepts. Fun! It seems that my life has been blessed with a lot of great opportunities lately, which is exciting. But it’s not like I’m okay with just any “change”, if it’s just another boring job or something that would limit my freedom/make me feel trapped (e.g. 996 work culture or financial debt), then obviously no. I want to keep my options open! I also prefer to minimize unnecessary risks so it doesn’t become obstacles or hold me back from other things I want.10. How do you make decisions?
I just listen to my gut and oftentimes it's already decided. The thing is when I really want something, in my mind I already have it. Sometimes it's beneficial to be this decisive, but it does make me seem possessive in my personal life, especially when the thing I "want" is a person. However, when the stakes are high, I force myself to rationalize it (e.g. weighing the pros and cons), even though deep down I already know I REALLY really want it. Like, I can easily imagine myself with it/doing it, I manifest on it. Oftentimes, I act on impulse first and only realize it afterward, then try to justify it with reasoning and figure out how to handle the consequences as they begin to unfold. I need to stay rational. I have to. I just can't let my emotions override logic!11. How do you solve logical problems?
I naturally notice when things don't make sense, so I just try to remember the stuff I already know and see if there's any pattern to it, then build possible explanations/come up with ways to fix them. I enjoy theorizing, forming hypotheses, and testing them.12. How do you deal with your emotions?
By dealing with the source of that emotion. What makes me anxious/angry? And what can I do about it? I'm a go-getter. I need to address it right away. I hate unresolved situations, so I act to resolve it ASAP and then just move on to do something else/distract myself. Though it's kinda frustrating if I have to wait for some time before being able to resolve it. Like, why? Not being able to do anything about it makes me feel depressed. I just wanna get it done quickly and forget about it. I want to have fun and do something else without ever needing to revisit those emotions again.13. What drives you in life? What do you look for?
Challenge! I want to see how far humanity can push the limits of our civilization, physically, mentally, and intellectually. What is possible? I want to test things, break them down, and understand how they work. I want to know. I want to explore and be fascinated!I don't want to just sit on the sidelines, that's BORING. I want to be fully engaged with the world. Not socially since I'm highly introverted, but I want to learn and do something fascinating and live life on my own terms. Routine doesn't drive me. I want to figure things out. Something big. I know what I want can be “risky”, I'm not dumb enough to not acknowledge that, but I still think it’s worth the risk sometimes. I suppose life isn't about playing it safe, it’s about experiencing everything firsthand, the good and the bad.14. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?
I want to protect what is rightfully mine. My career, my people, my freedom, my independence, my happiness, the life that I want. I don't really have "one major goal", grand ambition, or expectation that I live up to, but sometimes just being able to protect the life that I have or sense the life around me has been a hell ride of experience that slightly strengthened my will to live. So that's my dream: to experience everything that life has to offer. Chase the fun, reduce the sadness and boredom. I don’t wanna stay depressed.Career-wise, I currently work in data and AI engineering, which is well paid and sometimes a little bit interesting, but it’s basically just building boring repetitive corporate applications rather than exploring fun big questions. I'm interested in areas like planetary science, organic geochemistry, paleobiology, space science, theoretical physics, cosmology, evolutionary theory, biotech, and genetics. I'm hoping to explore any of that! I kinda enjoy imagining the possibilities and discussing what I could do next (e.g. opening a startup or pursuing a PhD), it feels a bit like escapism, I think?But well, who knows where life will bring me next? The future is a mystery, so I just do whatever the hell I want and see where it takes me. But whenever I decide that I definitely WANT that thing, then it has to be MINE. It's how I live. I don't want to interpret life as anything grandiose or living up to a certain definition of a successful life, but just taking it for granted. As it is.15. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?
I hope to avoid a lot of people, but mostly that specific person who tried to dictate my life. This life is MINE, and only I can decide what I want to do with it. I can't stand not having autonomy over my own life, so I don't give a damn about values or morality if they stand in the way of that.I also hate being tasked with managerial things for stuff I don't care about. There's no point in having responsibilities just for the sake of getting a high position. But if it's about something that fits my interest, I do lead, in fact I prefer to, since I tend to be stubborn and dominating in that case. I do enjoy being known for who I am and get respected for that, but my freedom & autonomy always comes first. Admiration only feels nice if it comes as a byproduct of me chasing what I want. If it doesn't align with my interests then I couldn't care less. I won't make myself uncomfortable just for the sake of prestige or other people's pressure/demands. If I don't want it, then no. If they insist, I want to avoid them at all costs.
I just want to live without a single care in the world, living from moment to moment. If I had to name a value, it would be to "let people live their lives." I'm not telling anyone how to live every moment of their life, and I'd prefer it if people didn't do it to me either.16. How do you want others to see you? How do you see yourself?
I don’t care much about what people think. I believe people will always see me differently anyway, especially depending on how close they are to me. Most people say that I am too quiet, introverted, and unsociable. Some who know me think I’m hot-headed and stubborn, while my partner says that I am caring, attentive, and dependable. I don’t believe there is just one “real me”. I may not know exactly what kind of person I am, but I do know what I want to do or be in life, and that’s the only thing that matters to me.
Personally, I see myself as someone who chases their desires and likes to inspire others to do the same through my fascination with life. I am also a playful person who values self-autonomy and having control over my own life. I guess I am sometimes drawn to the idea of being “macho”, strong, and sexy, but I don’t actively chase that image either. I also love it when my friends tell me that they can rely on me and feel safe enough around me to let their guard down, to the point where they are willing to share their dreams with me. In my closest relationships, I want to be the protector and provider, like a knight in shining armor! I want to be someone my partner can lean on with full trust. I want them to feel soft and taken care of by me.17. Describe how you experience each of: a) Anger; b) Shame; c) Anxiety.
a) ANGER: A LOT. Especially when someone disrespects me for MY life decisions or simply for being ME, when they think they know "what is best for me" even though that is not what I want/care about in life, or when they try to control my life because they want to "help" when I don't even ask them for it !!b) SHAME: I think I tend to overlook/don't want to think about it so I focus my energy outward and any misfortune that I've ever experienced mostly turns to anger or sadness. I've also been told multiple times that I lack self-consciousness, so there's that.c) ANXIETY: I am highly emotional, reactive, and sometimes anxious, like... VERY anxious, but only briefly? Like, I hate feeling that way so I always try to face it ASAP so I don't need to worry/overthink how I feel about it afterward. I deal with it, let go of it, then just try my best to direct my energy elsewhere (e.g. doing something fun or imagining what lies ahead/what is still possible)..BACK TO TOP